Wednesday, July 29, 2009

Same getdown, different body parts

You know what I absolutely cannot stand? The double standard associated with sex. Why is it that if a man has sex with a handful of women, he’s tight for that? You know the routine, the homies usually go “oooh, [insert name here] you the mannn!” But how come when a woman has sex with a handful of men she gets degraded and called all kinds of hoes and bitches? Personally, I think this male chauvinism is overrated. It’s 2009 and people are still on this bullsh**? I’ve seen this happen one too many times, situations where a man has sex with her, her, her cousin, and her cousin’s friend and it’s A-Ok. But noooo, let a woman have sex with just him and one of his homies and “she gets down foul”, “she’s a hoe”, “she’s triflin`” etc. etc. How is it that a man can so confidently call a woman a hoe when he’s doing the same damn thing she’s doing? So she dipped in the circle of friends and had sex with you and your homie, so what? You went swimming in that shit and had sex with her whole circle. But she’s the hoe? If she’s a hoe, what does that make you?!?!!!
My dearly beloved men, I suggest that you all stop trying to degrade the very women that you’re so constantly prowling on and take a long, hard look at yourselves and the actions you all convey. You’re all so quick to “fuck `em and leave `em”, claiming you just give her the D and keep it pushing but are even quicker to disrespect and humiliate a female when she’s not looking for anything from you but sex. I mean, what do you all want? You don’t want her to get attached to you (cuz so many of you think your sex game is so tight that we as females are dying to be with you. HA!) but then you want to call her a hoe when she’s getting hers elsewhere? Let’s toss the chauvinism to the side and rather, let’s all act like adults and treat sex as strictly that: sex! Let’s quit with all the name-calling and trash-talking because if you haven’t noticed, we’re doing the same shit you’re doing, we just have different body parts. After all, aren’t you the same man who just had sex with her before you decided to call her a hoe? Right! Stop hating on each other’s getdowns, because we all know you’re no better than us. Grow up and stop referring to sexually active women as hoes and sexually active men as “players”, “the man”, and “that dude”. Men, if you’re gonna call her a hoe, please reevaluate yourselves, because after all, it takes one to know one! ;-)

&& on that note, I’m ouuuuT!

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